Psalms 119:105 says that his light is there to guide my path but only lights what is around me not what is far ahead of me.
And Jeremiah 29:11 says that God knows what's ahead of me and he will take care of me. In context it says that we will have to go through a "babylon" before he will truly deliver us from pain and suffering.
My Babylon is coming and he will deliver me from it. He will teach me something along the way. But I know I will get through it and will be stronger in the end.
My friends and family are here for me and with their help I will get through it but it is ultimately God's help that will get me through my Babylon.
I have and will continue to give the stuff that is out of my control, to God.